Tuesday, November 18, 2008

I can’t remember the link to get into the Ticklish Giggles control panel, so I have to post the latest update here. I’ll cross post it over there later.

So, this week marks the 20 week point in the pregnancy - I’m halfway! Woo!

My appointment this morning was uneventful. The doctor is pleased with our progress. I’m happy to have a completely normal pregnancy this go ‘round. Here are the stats:

Weight: So far I’ve gained a total of 13 lbs, which is really good. It’s so weird to me that I have a hard time managing my weight when not pregnant, but when I am pregnant it’s easy to control.

Uterus: According to the doc, the measurement of my uterus is right on track for 20 weeks. The top of the uterus is right above my belly button, which is getting shallower by the week.

Baby Activity: Off the charts in the past few days. This is a busy baby. The doc put the Doppler on my belly to listen to the heartbeat and immediately got a few thumps from baby feet or hands. The heart rate was in the 140s.

Ovarian Cyst: Looked the same in the last ultrasound. They still plan to leave it alone for now and will reevaluate at delivery.

I’ll have my glucose test after the holidays, for which I’m grateful. I plan to indulge. Also, I’m only 8 weeks away from increasing my doctor’s visits from every 4 weeks to every 2 weeks. That is amazing to me - it seemed to take forever to get to this point, but I have a feeling the last half will fly.

As for my sleeping problem - I have slept better the last few nights so I completely forgot to ask about help with insomnia.

[ADDED LATER]: Still no word on the sex of the baby. We got no cooperation from baby at the last ultrasound and the doc didn’t say anything about another ultrasound anytime soon. We have a shy, mysterious child in there, people.

Monday, November 17, 2008

... and I hope to go see this on opening weekend next spring.

It’s been a while since I mentioned my side business, but here’s a shameless self promoting post for you. I took a long break from it while I was so ill with morning sickness. However, in the past month or so, I have been working on a few new things and I did participate in my mother’s annual fall open house last weekend. Sales were slow, as I expected given the economy, but I did well considering.

One of the new things I made that I was nervous about was this necklace and matching earrings. But the cool thing was the instant feedback when the ladies first saw them - all seemed to think it was a pretty necklace and I had several interested in buying it. Ultimately, they did sell, which was very fun.

The other new thing I’m offering is glass lockets. I love these things. They are double-sided, so you can put two pictures in them. They’re easy to open, with a little screw at the top near the clasp. I sold one round one at the open house and I plan to list them in my shop today I have listed them in my shop. They are custom pieces - you order the shape you want and length of chain you want (16”, 18” or 20") and I’ll put them together for you. You have to do your own photos, though.

I also took on a few special orders from the open house - resizing a ring for a woman who has the tiniest fingers imaginable, a tea infuser, the locket, and a necklace to match a bracelet and earrings.

If you have jewelry needs for Christmas gifts, please remember my little shop. I’ll try to add new items in the next couple of weeks and I plan to mark down some of the older inventory, too.

Saturday, November 15, 2008

Funny…

[via Thinkling Bill]

Friday, November 14, 2008

I got a phone call from a lady inquiring about her husband’s money. The husband was one of our “guests.” He was released and deported. His check was signed out from the jail by a deputy.

I asked a few questions and learned that the wife was told by the jail that the check was cashed.

“Then your husband must have cashed the check,” I told her.

“Oh no, his check was supposed to be sent to me,” she told me, her tone indignant. Apparently, the husband wrote to the wife to tell her that he hadn’t gotten his money from the jail, which is why she was calling. His money was supposed to be mailed to the wife.

In my head, I thought, “Your husband was just released from jail and deported. What makes you think he would not lie to you about cashing that check?”

What I said, “I’ll call the jail and look into it.”

Just talked to the jail - that dude totally lied to his wife about cashing the check. According the person I talked to at the jail, this happens all the time - she gets calls from wives, mothers, and baby mamas all the time looking for their money. Also, the deputy who signed for the check definitely gave it to the guy. I’m not looking forward to telling the lady that her husband lied to her.

*sigh*

Beau has an excellent post about Church and State Habits. An exerpt:

It seems to me that, like Esther, we each have a job to do, even if it’s not in a palace. Of course, voting in a little booth is a lot less scary than Esther’s approaching the king to speak the truth. But although our involvement in politics is limited, can our involvement be anymore unrelated to God’s plan than Esther’s? Can speaking the truth be secondary to “kingdom” work?

Go read the rest and share your thoughts with Beau.

Thursday, November 13, 2008

Yet another sleepless night with the nice addition of a recurring nightmare.

It all started when I fell into a deep sleep at about 8pm. Beau got home from small group at around 10pm and I woke up when he came to bed. And then I was wide awake (thanks to what turned out to be a nice nap) until after 1am.

That is when the dreams started - disturbing dreams that ultimately woke me up at around 4am. The kicker was when Jesse ran off the end of an unprotected balcony despite me calling for him to STOP! Then every time I closed my eyes, that vision would come back and continue only with me trying every way imaginable to get Jesse to STOP before running off of the balcony, to no avail - he ran off every single time. The last one was me begging Beau to get him to stop because clearly the kid was not going to listen to Mom. That didn’t work either, so I lay there with my eyes wide open and desperately praying for new, less deadly images to replace the repeating one. Eventually I fell asleep sometime after 5:10am only to be awakened rudely by my alarm at 6am.

I will be begging my OB for Ambien or something similar at my appointment next week. I need deep sleep.

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

There’s a new post about Jesse over at WC.

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

To all of the veterans,
Both here and abroad
And from times past and today…

Thank You.

Monday, November 10, 2008

We started to watch Iron Man last weekend, but the DVD was defective and we only saw the first 20 minutes. We managed to watch the new copy last night.

Beau didn’t think it was as great as the word of mouth said when it was in theaters. I thought it was pretty good.

I have always liked Robert Downey, Jr. and I thought he was great as Tony Stark. I was surprised at the chemistry he had with Gwyneth Paltrow (Pepper Potts). And it took me a minute to realize that was Jeff Bridges.

I’m looking forward to the sequel.

Iron Man gets 3.5 stars out of 5.

A couple of weeks ago I started to watch Jack and the Beanstalk, The Real Story on ION. Sadly, I wasn’t able to finish it that night, because I fell asleep about halfway through. However, I found it on Netflix and watched the last half yesterday.

The bones of a giant are discovered turning Jack Robinson’s life upside down, teaching him the truth behind the fairy tale and how he can fix a greedy ancestor’s mistakes.

I found the movie charming. The special effects weren’t perfect, but didn’t distract too much from the story-telling.

JatBTRS gets 2.5 stars out of 5.

There’s a brief update at Ticklish Giggles.

Thursday, November 06, 2008

Via Dad via email - Lincoln’s Second Inaugural Address.

Abraham Lincoln
Second Inaugural Address
Saturday, March 4, 1865

Fellow-Countrymen:

AT this second appearing to take the oath of the Presidential office there is less occasion for an extended address than there was at the first. Then a statement somewhat in detail of a course to be pursued seemed fitting and proper. Now, at the expiration of four years, during which public declarations have been constantly called forth on every point and phase of the great contest which still absorbs the attention and engrosses the energies of the nation, little that is new could be presented. The progress of our arms, upon which all else chiefly depends, is as well known to the public as to myself, and it is, I trust, reasonably satisfactory and encouraging to all. With high hope for the future, no prediction in regard to it is ventured.

On the occasion corresponding to this four years ago all thoughts were anxiously directed to an impending civil war. All dreaded it, all sought to avert it. While the inaugural address was being delivered from this place, devoted altogether to saving the Union without war, urgent agents were in the city seeking to destroy it without war—seeking to dissolve the Union and divide effects by negotiation. Both parties deprecated war, but one of them would make war rather than let the nation survive, and the other would accept war rather than let it perish, and the war came.

One-eighth of the whole population were colored slaves, not distributed generally over the Union, but localized in the southern part of it. These slaves constituted a peculiar and powerful interest. All knew that this interest was somehow the cause of the war. To strengthen, perpetuate, and extend this interest was the object for which the insurgents would rend the Union even by war, while the Government claimed no right to do more than to restrict the territorial enlargement of it. Neither party expected for the war the magnitude or the duration which it has already attained. Neither anticipated that the cause of the conflict might cease with or even before the conflict itself should cease. Each looked for an easier triumph, and a result less fundamental and astounding. Both read the same Bible and pray to the same God, and each invokes His aid against the other. It may seem strange that any men should dare to ask a just God’s assistance in wringing their bread from the sweat of other men’s faces, but let us judge not, that we be not judged. The prayers of both could not be answered. That of neither has been answered fully. The Almighty has His own purposes. “Woe unto the world because of offenses; for it must needs be that offenses come, but woe to that man by whom the offense cometh.” If we shall suppose that American slavery is one of those offenses which, in the providence of God, must needs come, but which, having continued through His appointed time, He now wills to remove, and that He gives to both North and South this terrible war as the woe due to those by whom the offense came, shall we discern therein any departure from those divine attributes which the believers in a living God always ascribe to Him? Fondly do we hope, fervently do we pray, that this mighty scourge of war may speedily pass away. Yet, if God wills that it continue until all the wealth piled by the bondsman’s two hundred and fifty years of unrequited toil shall be sunk, and until every drop of blood drawn with the lash shall be paid by another drawn with the sword, as was said three thousand years ago, so still it must be said “the judgments of the Lord are true and righteous altogether.”

With malice toward none, with charity for all, with firmness in the right as God gives us to see the right, let us strive on to finish the work we are in, to bind up the nation’s wounds, to care for him who shall have borne the battle and for his widow and his orphan, to do all which may achieve and cherish a just and lasting peace among ourselves and with all nations.

Eloquent.

I love the Monday morning (or Wednesday, in this case) quarterbacking. I’m disgusted that there are staffers from the McCain campaign who are trying to lay the blame for their loss on Sarah Palin. Listen up, you ran an ineffective campaign from the git-go. Palin came on the scene in August and you think she’s the reason you lost? You were losing well before she came along. You hemmed her in, over coached her, and ignored the very traits that made her the perfect VP pick for the last months of this campaign. She is the one who brought in up to 60K people to rallies. I wasn’t hearing those types of numbers for the Presidential candidate’s rallies. Shut yer traps and go lick your wounds, quietly.

I feel for her. From the moment she was named as the VP pick, her whole life was picked apart. I don’t know why people even think about running for higher office anymore, especially Republicans. They have to know that the media will nitpick over every tiny thing - any slight mistake in your life and you’re doomed. It’s shameful and it’s what I loathe about politics.

As for our President-elect, I’m praying for him. Expectations are high on all sides. I hope he can live up to them. 

Wednesday, November 05, 2008

It seems I’m doomed not to get a full night’s sleep until this baby arrives. Well ... until the baby decides to sleep through the night and who knows when that will happen.

I got home later than normal last night because of horrible traffic and was feeling pretty ill by the time I managed to eat something and go upstairs to change clothes. So I changed into my PJs and crawled into bed. I watched election stuff until I dozed off at about 9pm. Beau came to bed at 10pm with the pending bad news. I barely lifted an eyelid, rolled over and went back to deep sleep. Until about 12:30am… At 2am I gave up and got up, headed to my recliner in the basement, and turned on the TV to watch more election coverage. I watched and watched, waiting to get drowsy. No go. I did eventually doze off at about 5am, but didn’t fall into deep sleep because I was afraid of oversleeping. At 6:15am I went back upstairs to start getting ready for work.

At this point, I’m starting to get very tired. I think the drive home will be very long. And I’m headed straight to bed again.

I’m going to ask my doc about getting a sleep aid. I need to sleep more than a couple of hours a night. I’m exhausted.

*yawn*